Local Customs
Aims
Goal: ask a local about customs — greetings, dress, table manners — so you never accidentally offend anyone, with live role-play.
The lesson, stage by stage
- Warm up5 min
Warm-up: Don't offend anyone
2 warm-up questions
- Have you ever been surprised by a custom or tradition in another country?
- First try: I'm a friendly local in a country you've just arrived in. Ask me what you should know about greetings, dress, and table manners — 30 seconds, go.
- Reading10 min
Reading: Learning Local Ways
Read a 170-word text about Learning Local Ways
Learning Local Ways Maria is visiting Japan for the first time. Her hotel concierge gives her some tips. Maria: I'm really excited to explore the city. Are there any customs I should know about? Concierge: I'm glad you asked! There are a few things that visitors sometimes find surprising. Maria: Like what, for example? Concierge: Well, when you enter someone's home or many traditional restaurants, you should remove your shoes. There are usually slippers provided. Maria: That makes sense. What about tipping? Concierge: In Japan, tipping isn't customary and can actually be seen as rude. Good service is considered part of the job. Maria: Really? That's quite different from home. Concierge: Also, it's considered polite to bow when greeting people. A small bow is fine for tourists. Maria: I'll remember that. Any other tips? Concierge: When using chopsticks, never stick them upright in rice – it's associated with funeral rituals. And speaking quietly in public is appreciated. Maria: Thank you so much. I want to be respectful of the culture.
- Vocabulary8 min
Vocabulary: Culture Words
6 items
- Practice7 min
Practice: Culture Sentences
Gap-fill exercise, 5 items
- It's a local ____ to greet with a bow.
- I want to be ____ of the local culture.
- Is this outfit ____ for visiting the temple?
- Some gestures that are okay at home can be ____ in other countries.
- What's the proper ____ for greeting someone here?
- Practice7 min
Practice: Match Customs to Countries
Matching exercise, 5 items
- Remove shoes indoors
- Kiss on both cheeks
- Never point with finger
- Leave some food on plate
- Shake hands firmly
- Dialogue10 min
Dialogue: Ask About Customs
Role-play: You're asking a local about customs (7 lines)
- You: Excuse me, I'm visiting from abroad. Is there anything I should know about local customs?
- Local: That's thoughtful of you to ask! One thing is we greet with a handshake, not a hug.
- You: Good to know. What about when visiting someone's home?
- Local: It's polite to bring a small gift, like flowers or chocolates.
- You: And regarding clothing, is there anything inappropriate to wear?
- Local: For religious sites, cover your shoulders and knees. Otherwise, casual is fine.
- You: Thank you so much. I really appreciate you taking the time to explain.
- Discussion10 min
Discussion: Your mission: ask before you offend
3 discussion questions
- Mission: you've just arrived in a country you'd love to visit and meet a friendly local. Ask about the customs you should know — greetings, dress, and table manners — and check you've understood. (Success = three polite questions, one "Is it okay to…?" check, and a thank-you. Tutor: play the local, and keep it under three minutes.)
- Second take: this time you've already made a mistake — you wore your shoes inside your host's home. Apologise, ask what you should have done, and recover the conversation politely.
- Compare this with your first try at the start of the lesson. Which question sounds more natural now — and what custom from YOUR country would you warn a visitor about?
Target vocabulary
In a Tuton account these words become your student's vocabulary deck, so they come back in practice between lessons.
- custom
- a traditional way of behaving
- tradition
- belief or practice from the past
- respectful
- showing respect
- appropriate
- suitable or proper
- offensive
- causing upset or insult
- etiquette
- rules for polite behavior
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