Breaking the Ice
Aims
Say the first friendly sentence: greetings beyond 'how are you', weather and weekend openers, and the topics that are always safe
The lesson, stage by stage
- Warm up5 min
Warm-up: Speak First, and Say Something Easy
3 warm-up questions
- Who did you speak to this morning?
- Is it easy or difficult for you to speak first? Why?
- What do people in your country talk about when they wait?
- Reading10 min
Reading: The First Thirty Seconds
Read a 152-word text about The First Thirty Seconds
The First Thirty Seconds Marco works in an office in Lisbon. Every morning he waits for the lift with the same five people. For months he said nothing. He wanted to speak, but his mind was empty. Then he tried something very small. One rainy Monday he said: "Horrible weather today, isn't it?" A woman laughed and said, "Terrible! And I forgot my umbrella again." Why it worked Marco did not say anything clever. He talked about the weather, and the weather is safe. Everybody can answer it, because everybody is standing in the same rain. Safe topics The weather The weekend The place you are in Food, coffee and lunch Traffic and buses Holidays Not so safe Money, age, politics and health are difficult with new people. Wait until you know them better. Marco is still a little nervous. But now he speaks first, and the lift is a friendlier place.
- Vocabulary8 min
Vocabulary: Words for Easy Talk
7 items
- Practice7 min
Practice: Opener and Answer
Matching exercise, 6 items
- Lovely day, isn't it?
- Did you have a good weekend?
- Is this your first time here?
- How do you know Tom?
- Sorry, is this the queue for coffee?
- Are you from around here?
- Practice7 min
Practice: Finish the Opener
Gap-fill exercise, 6 items
- Lovely weather today, ____ it?
- ____ you have a good weekend?
- It's freezing this morning, ____ you think?
- Sorry, ____ this the queue for coffee?
- It's nice to ____ you.
- The coffee here is ____ than the coffee at work.
- Dialogue10 min
Dialogue: Waiting for the Lift
Role-play: You are waiting for the lift in your office building. A neighbour from the floor above is waiting too. You have seen each other many times, but you have never spoken. (7 lines)
- You: Horrible weather today, isn't it?
- Neighbour: Terrible! And of course I forgot my umbrella.
- You: Oh no! Do you live on the floor above me?
- Neighbour: Yes, flat twelve. I moved here in March. It's a nice building.
- You: March? Then you're new too. I moved here last year.
- Neighbour: Ah, here's the lift, finally. Are you going up?
- You: I am, thanks. I'm Ana, by the way. Nice to meet you.
- Discussion10 min
Discussion: Let's Talk
4 discussion questions
- Where do you wait every week? Who is there with you?
- What was the last thing a stranger said to you?
- Do you think it is polite to talk to people in a queue in your country?
- Which safe topic from the reading is easiest for you, and which is hardest?
Target vocabulary
In a Tuton account these words become your student's vocabulary deck, so they come back in practice between lessons.
- small talk
- Easy, friendly talk about simple things
- chat
- To talk in a friendly, relaxed way
- break the ice
- To say the first thing and stop the quiet
- greeting
- The words you say when you meet someone
- queue
- A line of people who are waiting
- lovely
- Very nice or very pleasant
- freezing
- Very, very cold
This plan comes from the Everyday Social English course in the Tuton library. Browse all free lesson plans.