Navigating Disagreements
Aims
Goal: disagree so the conversation moves forward — Agree–Reframe–Suggest: agree with something real, reframe the issue, suggest a path.
The lesson, stage by stage
- Warm up5 min
Warm-up: Disagreeing without destroying
2 warm-up questions
- Reading10 min
Reading: Disagreeing Without Destroying
Read a 193-word text about Disagreeing Without Destroying
- Framework6 min
Framework: Agree–Reframe–Suggest
Agree–Reframe–Suggest, 3 steps
- Practice7 min
Practice: Disagreement Vocabulary Practice
Gap-fill exercise, 5 items
- Dialogue10 min
Dialogue: Navigating a Project Disagreement
Role-play: You're in a team meeting discussing how to handle a product redesign. Your colleague Alex strongly believes the team should scrap the current design and start from scratch. You think it's better to iterate on the existing design. Use Agree–Reframe–Suggest to navigate this disagreement. (4 lines)
- Discussion10 min
Discussion: Your mission: the constructive no
5 discussion questions
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